list with dragons
Each person has two sides; a unique Talent and a protective layer full of dragons. If you want to express your unique Talent, it's good to become aware of skills/behavioral patterns that keep you from it: your dragons.
Below you find a list of possible dragons. Choose one at a time, observe yourself for a while, learn how this dragon behaves and see how your attachment to this dragon diminishes.
BTW, this list is certainly not complete. Let me know what dragon you are missing on this list!
Accusing
Adjusting
Annoyed
Anxiety
Always helping others
Arrogant
Avoiding
Avoiding conflicts
Avoiding risks
Being too late
Blaming
Blending in
Blocking
Boundaryless
Bragging
Bullying
Chaotic
Closing up
Comparing
Complaining
Condemning
Controlling
Copying others
Critical
Crying
Cynical
Defensive
Demanding
Dependent
Depressed
Detaching
Distant
Discussing
Disengaged
Dominating
Downplaying
Dreaming
Drinking
Dropping out
Eating
Egoistic
Eliminating yourself
Exaggerating
Exploding
Expecting
Fearing
Feeling like a Marter
Feeling less
Fighting
Giggling
Gossiping
Having a short fuse
Hiding
Headstrong
Helping everyone else
Hesitating
Hyperactive
Hypersensitive
Hypochondriac
Ignoring
Impulsive
Independent
Inpatient
Insulting
"I should..."
"It's not me"
"I will do it myself"
Jealous
Judging
Joking
Keeping it all to yourself
Keeping your head in the clouds
Knowing it all
Lazy
Looking for kicks
Looking for rewards
Making fun of things
Manic
Manipulating
Multitasking
Nagging
Neglecting
Never finishing
Not joining
Observing
Others first
Overprotecting
Passive
Patronizing
Perfecting
Pessimistic
Pleasing
Procrastinating
Quitting
Rationalising
Rigid
Sacrificing
Sarcastic
Saying yes to everything
Searching conflicts
Self-doubting
Self-pity
Shutting down
Silent
Sloppy
Slow
Staying on guard
Stubborn
Suppressing
Suspicious
Social Media browsing
Tactless
Taking up all the space
Talking
Teaching
Teasing
Thinking
Thinking negative thoughts
Tough
Unprepared
Withdrawing
Worrying
"Yes, but..."
"You decide"
"You go first"